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Originally Posted by Valentina_J
I'm curious: What about the flip side of the equation? Would any of the men here be willing to date a woman who had worked as a prostitute?
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I wish I had more time to post a better and more thoughtful reply than this but in a word. Yes I have dated a woman who worked as an "escort". She was up front about her past which at first was a little bizzare for me to try and comprehend. She had very high standards for her clients and her "gift" rate was very high @ $1000.00 for two hours minimum. She spoke at length about being taken on trips and being given gifts beyond what I could possibly imagine giving to someone I barely knew and knew only for that reason.
She had demonstrated on a couple of occasions that she had accumulated a bit of personal wealth as a result of her work. She at the ripe young age of 38 owned a large house on four acres of land. She owned three horses that her 16 year old daughter was using to learn to ride as an equestrian. She had claimed to have made upwards of $170,000 (all cash) in the year prior to our brief dating experience. Ultimately she went back to the business and I've since lost touch with her.
Outwardly she is a quite well adjusted person. Inwardly...I could never get close to her. She was very detatched about her past and had this idea that if she or I were to be in a realtionship that it would have to be on the basis that she could "go back to work" if she decided she ever wanted to do that. She also felt that she should be able to sleep with anyone if she felt the need and that it should be okay as long as she told me about it in advance. Of course that would have been okay for me as well. I couldn't agree to that so the brief relationship ended.
Her website is available for viewing but I won't post that here. PM me if you are interested in seeing it. There is a whole different world out there and seemingly the most normal among us will lead vastly different lives from our own. That was definitely the case for Lee.
She's quite beautiful but I couldn't date someone who is active in that business. As for the past... everyone has one. Some parts of it are better left there than brought back to the present.
God Bless ya Lee ... stay safe!