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Originally Posted by Bearface
Thanks Abaya.
No she has never had an orgasm, nor has she indulged in masturbating...Yet.
I am her first sexual partner and she's never had the pleasure of oral sex from anyone else before. Going on the proviso that everyone is different, there a few "standard procedures" that one keeps in their bag of tricks to ensure great success. I have employed as having done so with past gf's and partners but with my current partner they have been working only to a point. Then stop me dead in my tracks.
Well, judging by her movements and body language and also from talking to her about it afterwards, it seems that she gets close to the point but then gets really sensitive and needs me to stop. Even if I anticipate this and slow down or become gentle in my strokes she still cant go on because the sensation she describes sounds similiar to the sensation of someone going down on you, directly onto your clit literally after you've cum. Or from a male perspective, a woman sucking on your head just after you've shot your load.
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Ah...that pre-orgasm tickle. Yea, she needs to allow herself to go past that point-a good way to help do that is 69'ing-she will have her mind elsewhere, more or less, instead of paying attention to her own progress. Worth a shot.
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Originally Posted by Bearface
We have both been doing our research and we stumbled across Kegels/Pc muscle exercises and I know from past gf's/partners that they have always clenched and this brings in an extra flow of arousal to take them to climax but have never really been sure of the ins and outs of it!(excuse the pun)
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I'm curious as to why all the work....just relax and enjoy the experience and all this 'research' into the ins and outs wouldn't be necessary, no? The best research is the research you can do on each other.
jmo