I'm praying for all you heathens
Seriously though, I think it would benefit all to really try and look beyond the words, to the intention, coming from religious or non-religious folk. It is usually pretty evident if the words are something like "Christian-ese" (just some word or phrase for that is commonplace in a religious setting, for whatever reason) or if it is truly heartfelt.
The basis of Christianity is Christ's love, not all this ceremonial BS. I think ceremony and the like has some purpose as a manifestation of your true belief, but that should not be the whole core, to "seem" like a Christian by going through the motions.
I am equally as embarrassed by those patronizing, holier than thou 'Christians' as the atheist's present seem to be annoyed/angered by them.