I didn't have birthday parties growing up and never once have I felt sorry for myself.
I had a 1st birthday party for my oldest daughter and haven't hosted another one since. I make a delicioius yet modest cake, sometimes I'll decorate a little if I'm feeling extravagant, occasionally a friend or two will be invited over for cake, but that's it. This year we took E to Chuck E Cheese for her 8th birthday and I will never be doing that again either.
We're just not much of a party family.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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