Bad choice of wording is all..I'm agreeing that it's all interconnected, which is why we have such varying reactions to different stimuli and why it'd be impossible to personally describe our own orgasms(regardless of how we got them) to someone who's never had their own or questions what they're feeling.
Was going to edit previous post to include this link:
http://www.reuniting.info/science/ox...health_bonding
This is a really good article:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/orgasm.htm
Edited to add: I am, admittedly, a bit old school and go by (probably) older data and (good or bad) a lot of experience and discussion. "Orgasm" seems to have become a catch-all word for intense reaction to sexual stimuli; but the way we react to each technique is decidedly different and every orgasm is not the same, even within the same woman. I can go absolutely crazy and reach most of the clinical 'phases' without actually having sex, but the most intense, longest lasting and wildest orgasms involve the clitoris always and I think this holds true for the vast majority, or at least anyone who's climaxed that way. Until I had that, I thought I was climaxing quite well-it's a whole different ballgame when you find out otherwise. Just too bad it can't be described to those who want to know what it feels like.(and anal, gspot along with clit? OY!)
is it hot in here or is it just me?