Thread: Kegel Orgasm?
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Old 08-12-2007, 06:55 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
Uhh...okay. First of all, there is no real physiological difference between g-spot and clitoral orgasms, as they physiologically work on the same group of nerves (the bundle of nerves that form your clit end in a longer nerve, which runs just behind the g-spot).

To clarify for the OP:

The orgasm, in either sex, can be broken down into four stages (thanks to Masters and Johnson) called the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. During excitement, many physiological changes take place in both sexes. In females, the breasts enlarge and nipples swell, vasocongestion leads to excretion of fluid from the vaginal walls, and the uterus moves higher up into the abdominal cavity, lengthening the vagina somewhat. The clitoris and other sex organs such as the labia begin to swell. In plateau, the Bartholin glands produce fluid, the clitoris continues to swell but withdraws a smidge under its hood, and the labia continue to swell.

Orgasm in females results in very pleasurable muscle contractions in the pelvic region. All of the muscles one uses in doing Kegel exercises begin to clench reflexively, and the uterus also contracts. In most females, this group of contractions can last anywhere from 15-30 seconds--sometimes longer. I can make an self-induced orgasm last as long as 45 seconds, but my g-spot orgasms are usually only about 15 seconds long (they are, however, much more rapid in coming).

Some women have the great fortune of having more ways to reach orgasm than others--some can come via breast stimulation, having their thighs stroked the right way--but only about 25% of women actually orgasm from traditional vaginal intercourse. Personally, during traditional intercourse, I'm more likely to come from his penis repeatedly hitting my cul-de-sac (the posterior fornix) and bumping my uterus. I can also come from being spanked if the spanks jar my uterus. Like I said--there are a variety of ways for women to reach orgasm, and we're all different. I can also come from having my back stroked a certain way after sex--the great beauty of being multi-orgasmic (women usually spend a couple of minutes in the plateau phase after orgasm, instead of going straight to resolution, like the majority of men do).

Given what you've said, it's more likely you're just hitting the excitement phase. Some of the sensations in excitement/plateau can feel like mini-orgasms...but like ng said, if you've really had an orgasm, you don't have to ask.
Nothing in many articles I've read states that the clitoris and gspot are of the same group of nerves any more than any other genital area-they're all connected, but not the same(breasts are also a part of the equation-their stimulation releases oxytocin, which is increased during sexual pleasure. Nursing causes uterine contractions because of it.) It's described most often as the 'uretheral sponge'-tissue that wraps around the urethra and swells during sexual excitement, enhancing the enjoyment(although there might be that initial sensation of having to pee).
Being that you can 'orgasm' with spanking as I can with nipple stimulation, it's, as 'experts' have said, a state of mind. They're a reaction to what we enjoy sexually-we wouldn't necessarily react the same way to someone we couldn't stand and what gets you or me to that point might not be pleasant for someone else.
If the OP isn't familiar with it, this might help: http://www.gspotcenter.com/facts/what-is-the-gspot
In the meantime, I certainly wouldn't stop the Kegel, just add to it
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