How badly she takes this, is entirely up to her. In the end, you can prepare the event for months on end, to the smallest detail, and she can still explode over it.
If you want out, you're not ready, you are feeling like you're incompatible, ...
you just have to ask yourself if you're willing to work and fight for the relationship.
If you don't, then the answer is: get out, and don't delay.
Don't try to save your credibility, the fact that you are trying to save it, already makes you lose it.
You don't need to justify with bullshit reasons, just tell her you're not ready for this and you want to put an end to the relationship.
Just go do what needs to be done, and get it over with.
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