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Well...if I'm talking to you I prefer to have eye contact. When your eye contact is on my breast then I feel like you're not listening to what I have to say.
If you wear a low-cut shirt it's not always an invitation to stare, maybe we just like the shirt because it looks flattering on us.
However for those women who are blessed with large boobs, and decide to let them dangle from their shirts then I suppose they're wanting the attention from men.
Also I think the environment in which the woman is and her outfit have an effect on if the man is staring or not...if a woman is at work with a nice blouse and a suit on then no I would not look at her rack.
But if she's alone in a bar or at a club and smelling like sex (and I guess looking like it too) then it seems to be more acceptable.
So that's my idea on the subject.
I feel uncomfortable when I'm at work and I notice people staring at my boobs because well..I'm at work, I technically can't say anything because it's inappropriate.
However if I were OFF the clock I would say something.
For instance.
I lifeguard at the Tech pool, so I watch people.
I've noticed this one guy who is constantly going under the water to watch girls in the lanes next to him while they're completely oblivious. This kind of watching I find to be creepy, so men don't do that when you're swimming laps...or atleast don't make it so damn obvious.
I have seen this guy doing this on 4+ occasions when I've been guarding, I've mentioned it to my supervisor but unless the people he's gauking at say anything they can't do anything.
(sorry that came off target a bit)
But yea thats how people stare in that creepy/disrespectful way.
Otherwise a few glances are fine as long as its not just looking there and not at the woman.
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