Thread: How to say no
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Old 08-06-2007, 05:30 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ngdawg
Then be honest by using 1,2,3....wouldn't touch #4.
"You're too young for me, you're my friend's baby brother and I don't want a relationship right now".
Done.
I remember hearing a rule in the past: "If you give more than one reason, you aren't giving the real reason." Not to say that you don't legitimately have more than one completely valid reason, but I would recommend picking whichever is your primary reason, and just using that one.

Also, Reason #4 obviates #3. If you do have casual sex, and he knows that, and you tell him that you don't want a relationship, he may either ask or wonder "but, why won't you just fuck me"? #1 and #2 are facts, and nothing that he can change: I'd stick with one of those two.
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