The only time I have ever seen this work is between two friends who lived in different cities. When either was in town they'd catch up as friends over coffees and then have a night of pure deborcherous sex any night they weren't busy catching up with mates and the like.
So maybe the lesson there is don't hook up to much, and do stuff together as friends like you'd normally do without the expectation of sex. Otherwise, when really thing about, you've both demoted yourselves to fuck buddies with a history and present hang ups. And that just ain't gonna work.
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