That's the first thing I thought of, training youself. If you could actually feel what you you caused another to feel, you would know how much better "this" was than "that" was, and whether you should have stayed a half inch lower, etc. Open communication is one thing, but this would absolutely rock. Although, I would probably not allow my experiences to be played back to anyone but my SO.
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I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe
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