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Noodlebee, I don't think you should feel guilty about thinking about being with another guy. It happens, that doesn't mean you shouldn't tell your boyfriend though.
Ultimately you cannot date both men so you'll have to decide if your boyfriend is worth giving up for this new guy. If you decide your roommate's not worth breaking up with your boyfriend for though, you need to tell your roommate that nothing will happen between you two and make sure he understands it. If he is a good guy like you say, telling him it's not going to happen will hopefully keep things from getting too weird.
You can't put off making a decision forever so take some time and figure out what you want. Don't lead both on.
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