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Originally Posted by abaya
However... Sorry, but I find this to be rather pretentious. I don't view it as being somehow "enlightened" to have a different opinion on this matter... as you said, it's a matter of finding a person who's "right" for you. If you and your wife agree about the limits of your fantasy/masturbation/sex with emotions, great! I'd venture to say that my husband and I do, too... we just have different ideas from you and your wife. It's just that to us, masturbating to pictures of our close friends would constitute a kind of sex with emotions/attachment. And that is not cool with either of us. That's all.
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After reading it again just now, I didn't mean to come across as pretentious. Basically, all I meant was that me and the wife have the same views on sexuality and masturbation (for the most part) and this sort of thing does not bother us and I'm thankful for that because it saves me a ton of grief heh.
This is why communication is such a vital part of any relationship.
I'm also pleased with the report that was handed down by burtsbees and applaud her for her willingness to look at both sides of the issue and find a new exciting way to enjoy sex
