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Originally Posted by guccilvr
I guess in all of this it all boils down to the fact that people have to communicate and find the person that is right for them.
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I agree with you here... clearly, this is why ktspktsp and I are such a good match!
We agree very much about this kind of thing. However...
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Originally Posted by guccilvr
Thankfully, me and my wife can differenciate the difference between pure fantasy and masturbation and sex with emotions.
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Sorry, but I find this to be rather pretentious. I don't view it as being somehow "enlightened" to have a different opinion on this matter... as you said, it's a matter of finding a person who's "right" for you. If you and your wife agree about the limits of your fantasy/masturbation/sex with emotions, great! I'd venture to say that my husband and I do, too... we just have different ideas from you and your wife. It's just that to us, masturbating to pictures of our close friends would constitute a kind of sex with emotions/attachment. And that is not cool with either of us. That's all.