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Wow, this thread really shows the differences between men and women and how so few of us really understand the other sex. Fascinating.
My take:
1. I understand that the OP was upset and hurt. I believe her BF felt bad about it although most of the guilt is related to getting caught and hurting her, not the act itself.
2. The thing about most guys is that we fantasize about screwing everyone. For me, she doesn't even need to be that hot, she may just have one feature about her that is appealing to me. Throughout the years I've had plenty of thoughts about my wife's sister, friends, acquaintances, etc. and just as many about people I know and have worked with. That's just how we are built. That little dress your friend wears? Yeah we'll look to see if we can see up it and then we'll think about it later. If you can't handle it, become a lesbian.
3. Regardless, I do understand my wife and although I'm sure she knows I've thought those things about people we know, I know enough to not discuss it with her. It would be awesome if I could but I don't see it working out well.
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