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yep - i'm with mixed on this. to me it demonstrates a lack of respect and a lack of manners, which is only exacerbated by the fact that it's in an area where many people are uncomfortable. yes, if a given relationship is such that these things are spoken of openly, then it might be a different situation. it might be healthier, in that open communication is present in the relationship. first of all, i don't get the feeling that the 'i'd like to fuck some of your friends in a fantasy sense' conversation has come up in this particular relationship.
secondly, i think there are a ton of things that a person's SO might think about on a daily basis, that you just don't want to hear or be reminded of. they hate your friends, they hate your family, or your parents. or maybe just find them irritating. you might be aware of it, but you don't want to hear it all the time; it's just rude. add the sensitivity that many people feel regarding their sexuality and sexual relationships, and i think it's not difficult to understand how this is rude and inconsiderate.
i also feel that there is something about the act of downloading pictures of your girlfriend's friend to jack off to shows a heightened level of desire to actually fuck them. particularly if you're doing it on the sneak-sneak. its one thing to think about fucking your girlfriend's friends...it sends a different signal that you are premeditatively thinking about fucking your girlfriends friends.
i feel fairly certain that most of the chicks i know would dump a guy who was jacking off to pictures of their friends; particularly if they hadn't discussed this sort of thing before. this girl has relationships with these other girls, the guy is definitely not showing some respect. it might seem to be a token...but i would love to see the look on some of my female friends' faces if they found out their friends' boyfriends/husbands were masturbating to pictures of them. hello 'stalker alert'.
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