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Originally Posted by JinnKai
So your reason is that "Not only would be it be disrespectful to me, to our relationship and to my friends, but I think it would betray a lack of judgment and character that I would find to be very dismaying."
I ignored it because it didn't make sense to me. Perhaps you could clarify?
What is inherently 'disrespectful' about him downloading pictures of naked women you know as opposed to naked women you do not know?
What 'lack of judgment' is displayed? What would he judging incorrectly? Your reaction?
How is him downloading naked pictures of women you know a demonstration of lack of character whereas downloading naked pictures of women you don't know is?
And as a side note, I wasn't referring to you directly in my hypothesis of poor self-confidence. My experience with you has been the opposite, but I think you're an exception to the otherwise pandemic of poor self-esteem in young women.
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1. These women were not naked. They hadn't posted pictures of themselves naked on the internet for people to masturbate to. If I happened to have friends in the porn industry who have pictures on the internet then that might be different, although, I would much prefer he masturbate to pictures of women that we don't know. Just as I know for a fact that he would not like for me to masturbate to pictures of other men that he knows. I don't think it necessarily denotes a lack of security. I think it denotes a sense of propriety and appropriate behavior.
2. For me, in my opinion, it shows poor judgment and character to download pictures of women that you know and who are friends of your SO and keep them for masturbation. This is my opinion.
3. He's judging incorrectly the priorities of behaving responsibly and procuring material to masturbate with.
4. I am not a young woman.
