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Originally Posted by JinnKai
Most of the women in this thread have made a very distinct distinction between "random women" and "my friends" and I'm not sure why there's a distinction between them.
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The fact is, people who look at porn are unlikely to meet the actual people in the porn unless they actively go out and try to do so (by attending adult entertainment expos or whatever), but if a guy is looking at his girl's friends--those are women he knows. He has met them, he probably sees them every so often, etc. That's totally different. Porn is well within the realm of healthy fantasy, but looking at your girlfriend's friends is not, just because of that very key difference--porn stars are strangers. These women were not strangers to this man.
To me, it's offensive, because there is plenty of porn out there to be had--a guy doesn't need to be whacking off to his girl's friends.
But this whole relationship sounded like it needed some communication work anyways--lesson learned here: don't snoop but rather encourage clear communication SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO SNOOP. Ta-da.