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Originally Posted by MrFriendly
So, I'll throw this question out to the guys. If you walked into a room to find one of your best male friends whacking of to a photo of your girlfriend or sister, how would you react?
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I'd close the door, and hope he didn't notice that I walked in (saving him the embarrassment of being walked in on). Then I'd chuckle and be happy he finds my g/f attractive. Why should I be upset that my friends think I have an attractive girlfriend? Seems the only way to avoid that is to only date people who are particularly
unattractive.
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Here's another question for the guys. We're visual creatures when it comes to sex, especially wanking. That's ok. Now say you are having a fantasy about your so's friends, so you download some pics. How much effort do you go to to make sure your SO never finds them, and would you want her friends to find out what you're doing? If you're going to good lengths to keep in secret, why is that?
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I think I'd probably just ask my g/f if she'd mind first (note: that's because I'm pretty positive she wouldn't - it's easy to ask something when you know the answer will be in your favor). As for her friends finding out, that depends on the friend. A lot of people have a bunch of unreasonable hangups and expectations regarding sexuality, so it depends on the person.
I'm not saying everyone should ask their significant other whether or not it's ok to masturbate to their friends, because for most people that's not something that can be casually discussed. The only way to get to that point is through a lot of communication and openness.
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Terrel, why go to such lengths to hide your porn? If you don't want your significant other looking at it, just say "This is my porn. I'd appreciate it if you didn't look at it without me, because I'd like to preserve that personal space."