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Originally Posted by Terrell
I'm also curious as to why the OP was going through her boyfriend's porn folder? Aren't there some zones of privacy, even for people in relationships? I would think that going through a guy's porn folder, unless he has previously said it's okay to do so, would be comparble to a guy going through a lady's most personal and private spaces, unless she previously said it was okay to do so.
...he should keep it out of her sight (and not being so carless as to leave it in the player) and she shouldn't go out of her way to look for it.
Even in a relationship there should be some zones of privacy, that the partner doesn't intrude upon, unless the other person offers permission for it. (it's inapropriate to ask in my opinion).
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I feel silly pointing out the obvious, but it's VERY easy to accidentally run across something like that. I recently ran across an old 'home video' that I forgot existed (and I so hope the kids didn't find it too) even though I thought it was well hidden. Heck, it was even in a "hidden" folder that was in another "hidden" folder.
...Even if you have a folder address such as "c:/mystuff/my private stuff/don't go here/really serious dont go here/you have been warned/soandsos-naked-pic.jpg" ...
If you save an internet photo into that folder (on my pc anyway)...when the next person tries to save an internet photo, it will automatically suggest saving into that folder, and show you the file names in that folder. And sometimes it shows thumbnails of everything in that folder. And if the next person has a browser open to look for *their own* file somewhere and hits file/browse...it's going to suggest the last folder that something was saved to, as well as show you what is there. My graphics program works the same way.
I'm not saying this is how she found the picture. I have no idea how she did. But before shaking my finger at her, I'll remember how many times I've had to move the milk to get to the ketchup in my own fridge.