Wow...
I really don't think it's like that at all Hyac..
Sex and masturbation are two totally different things, as is fantasy and real life.
Firstly, like I've been trying to say, masturbation has nothing to do with feelings, it's simply getting off. If this guy really is in the relationship with her because he wants to be, he isn't thinking of other people while they fuck.
I hate to break this to you, but, just because your boyfriend may not have pictures of your friends, there is absolutely ZERO doubt in my mind he is beating off thinking about some of them. Thats just how it is, and always will be.
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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe
What it comes down to for me is that he has evaluated your friends physically, found their myspace pages, downloaded photos of them and probably every time he sees that girl from now on is going to be thinking about them in skimpy outfits or naked. I couldn't deal with that.
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1. Evaluated friends physically: I garrentee he, as well as any other straight guy is evaluating EVERY female physically, your mom, your sisters, every single one of them.
2. Found their myspace: I've had friends of my g/f on my myspace page, it's not as if he sluethed these people out and went all secretive to find this stuff.
3. Everytime he see's the girl......skimpy outfits or naked: HAHAHAHAH Man.... That is happening anyway lol, whether he beats off to them or not, unless they are ugly he is envisioning them naked! Thats just how it is!