I originally responded to this thread when it was posted in the Ladies Lounge (cause I'm an idiot and even mods aren't perfect
), but since then there have been plenty of other responses. So, rather than paste what I originally wrote, I'll start off by saying:
guccilvr,
JStrider,
dirtyrascal7,
Manic_Skafe,
ratbastid, and
radioguy hit it right on the money. Note that these are all guys too, as am I, so it should give you an idea of how big a difference there is between who a guy masturbates to and who he wants to
be with (the latter being
you)). And
World's King is partly right. No, you shouldn't all have an orgy, but you're boyfriend is also not really sorry for masturbating to the pictures. What he's sorry about is that it made you so upset. There's a big difference between the two.
Anyway, work on your communication together. It seems that you've started talking more openly about this, and you should continue to do so. If there's one post in this thread (so far at least) that deserves to be read multiple times, it's
ratbastid's.
You choose how to react to this. If your relationship is fine otherwise, then don't choose to make a big deal out of what your boyfriend masturbates to. Talk to him about it and learn to understand where he's coming from. Let him explain what the difference is, in his mind, between masturbating to pictures of your friends and dating you.
Oh, and while any orgy with your friends may not be the best idea, why not make some homemade porn of your own for him to masturbate to?