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Old 07-29-2007, 12:47 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by World's King
He didn't delete them. He just hid them from you. He's not sorry.

He's just like every other guy out there.



My girlfriend's best friend back in Cali is fuckin' hot. And I'll admit to flirting with her when my girlfriend wasn't around. I might have even thought about her while I was having sex with my girlfriend.

My only advice is to have an orgy with him and your friends. Get the sexual tension out of the way.
I really don't think this post is funny and it is incedibly insensitive. Also, the post about blaming the OP for having insecurity issues - I take issue with that too, you would be insecure if your partner masturbated to pics of your friends - who are you kidding that that wouldn't affect you?

To the OP: I think it is insensitive what he has done, and it's perfectly normal for this to affect your self image.

I am glad he's sorry and is otherwise a good partner (if this were not the case I would have said leave). I think perhaps he's a little immature and didn't think how his actions would hurt (people get selfish and one track-minded when it comes to getting off) and aslong as he doesn't do anything like this again and you can rebuild trust - things will be fine.

I think the issue here is trust, he needs to rebuild it with you.

All the best :-)
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