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Hyacinthe · 07-28-2007, 11:56 PM

Ok things that attract me to a guy

1. Confidence - I like a guy that will just walk up say "Hi I'm Mike - nice to meet you, can I buy you a drink?" It's honest, upfront, says that he's interested and I just hate it when I am out with male friends and they spend 30min staring at one girl and are too afraid to approach her. Girls are primarily the same as guys, if you wouldn't freak out if a girl did that to you I doubt she will, to me there's no real need for pick lines or elaborate plots to get her attention, seriously the worst that can happen is she'll say no, the sky's not going to fall in or something.

2. Respect me and my space - Nothing I hate more then someone I barely know calling me love, sweety, darling etc etc it really pisses me off. My family and friends don't call me that so if you do after 10min or so I assume you're looking for a one nighter and cbf remembering my name. Also I am NOT I repeat not a PDA type of girl, a hand on the small or my back or around my waist occasionally is good I love that but don't hang all over me when I am trying to talk to someone or try to keep both arms around me when I am trying to walk - it's difficult and irritating and I prefer to be thought of as an individual rather then half of a siamese twin

3. Subtlety - If you're going to check me out do it without me noticing, I get seriously tired of guys staring at my chest if I wear something the slightest bit low cut. Yes I know you'll look, yes I expect you to, but I also expect you to be talking to my fact rather then my bra.

Physically well long as the guy is clean and neat I'm generally happy same as the others (though I will admit a touch of shadow from a beard on a square jawline makes my knees feel a little weak).

07-28-2007, 11:56 PM	#30 (permalink)
Hyacinthe Psycho Location: Australia	Ok things that attract me to a guy 1. Confidence - I like a guy that will just walk up say "Hi I'm Mike - nice to meet you, can I buy you a drink?" It's honest, upfront, says that he's interested and I just hate it when I am out with male friends and they spend 30min staring at one girl and are too afraid to approach her. Girls are primarily the same as guys, if you wouldn't freak out if a girl did that to you I doubt she will, to me there's no real need for pick lines or elaborate plots to get her attention, seriously the worst that can happen is she'll say no, the sky's not going to fall in or something. 2. Respect me and my space - Nothing I hate more then someone I barely know calling me love, sweety, darling etc etc it really pisses me off. My family and friends don't call me that so if you do after 10min or so I assume you're looking for a one nighter and cbf remembering my name. Also I am NOT I repeat not a PDA type of girl, a hand on the small or my back or around my waist occasionally is good I love that but don't hang all over me when I am trying to talk to someone or try to keep both arms around me when I am trying to walk - it's difficult and irritating and I prefer to be thought of as an individual rather then half of a siamese twin 3. Subtlety - If you're going to check me out do it without me noticing, I get seriously tired of guys staring at my chest if I wear something the slightest bit low cut. Yes I know you'll look, yes I expect you to, but I also expect you to be talking to my fact rather then my bra. Physically well long as the guy is clean and neat I'm generally happy same as the others (though I will admit a touch of shadow from a beard on a square jawline makes my knees feel a little weak). __________________ "I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own" "Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."