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Old 07-28-2007, 09:51 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by *Nikki*
In defense of him, sometimes men do really really stupid crap like that and don't even think twice about possible outcomes.

On the other hand how is the relationship outside this issue?
lol, I'm not sure how that's a defense

But, I agree. They do stupid crap like that and don't think twice about it. But they're not stupid for crying out loud. This involved him going to their My Space pages and deliberately saving their pictures for masturbation, repeatedly. Not just a chance, passing fantasy. I mean, the easy way to relativize (is that a word, lol) it is to imagine that your boyfriend or husband came across pictures of their friends in your porn folder that you were masturbating to. I would be very skeptical of any claims of nonchalance about that. Very skeptical.
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