I agree with abaya...kick in the balls and then to the curb.
This guy sounds like a total insensitive ass wipe.
I wish there was a way to make yourself forget awful things...but there isn't.
If this is happening now, odds are it will only get worse later on in the relationship.
Even though he's apologized and all that jazz I would still be pissed and insecure.
I get pissed off when my bf is around my roommates and they're wearing spandex or showing cleavage that I don't have (grumble grumble)...I mean come on...we're girls this is how we react to things like this. We view our men as ours and no one else's therefore even though your friends didn't do anything wrong you probably still feel a little betrayed by them.
We don't want our men looking anywhere else but us and the fact that he violated you by masturbating to your friends is totally unacceptable.
I would dump his ass. I do know that after being together for 2 years that seems unfathomable, but it's only going to get worse with the porn.
Sorry this happened to you hun *hugs*
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