Well, I can definitely understand how this could be hurtful. And I may be out of the mainstream of responses you might get here, but I think it was particularly insensitive of your boyfriend to do so. Granted, sometimes guys are like that. But I just can't cotton that excuse to cover anything and everything of a sexual nature. Sometimes they just really do stupid and selfish things when they could choose not to.
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