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Originally Posted by gh0ti
You don't think your constant nagging for him to quit something he likes doing might have made him moody and aggressive towards you? Accept him for who he is and what he likes to do. Changing a person will only cause more trouble down the road. He will resent you for it.
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If pot isn't her thing, then she needs to get out of that relationship rather than trying to change a person. If she is not comfortable with it, being honest with herself and him is the way to go. If he is unwilling to change then there are two ways to go about it. End the relationship as soon as possible and move on, or let the problems grow and grow until the relationship is forced to an end. If there is no willingness to compromise from either person in the relationship on things that are huge things for people then there is no need for the relationship to continue (they will just be miserable).
It's a tight rope, and people should not force themselves to live with something that makes them uncomfortable.