[QUOTE=ASU2003]'I'm not a fan of one night stands or one hour sex sessions. So, it's not for me.
It doesn't matter if it costs money or it is free, I would want to be with someone that wants to be with me'.
Is this not the heart of the whole issue? What most of us want in life is an intimate connections. This is unlikely to happen whilst visiting a prostitute. Unless of course you are Richard Gere and Julia Roberts.
I have been interviewing people about the myriad ways that we lose our virginity for some time now - I write about it on my blog:
www.virginityproject.typepad.com
Bizzarely, as a result of this, I now correspond with quite a large swathe of invisible society - people who have never lost their virginity, and most of them are men. For these people, if they pick carefully, I really think that a visit to a prostitute could be a step in the right direction.
By the by, I have been trying to interview a man who lost his virginity to a prostitute for over a year now, no joy! I am highly unjudgemental. If you know anyone who would be prepared to do this - absolute anonymity guarenteeed, point them in my direction! Towards London hopefully as this is where I am based.