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Originally Posted by katyg
Does anyone here have a past of smoking cannabis a lot?
Me and my partner just broke up, the final straw being that after 9 years of smoking he couldn't quit.
It made him moody, agressive, poor company really, but underneath that problem you can still see this person I loved.
It's so sad. I can't wait for him, even though he's stopped now, he can't make me any promises.
When I smoked a lot it made me lazy and depressed but I quit easily because it only sucked me in for 2 years.
I am so sad at how things are, and angry that weed messed so many things up, from sex to going out and him being paranoid. He'll always think we were wrong together because his perception of things was so off the mark most of the time.
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Sounds like it has nothing to do with the pot and everything to do with his maturity. I know lots of people who smoke who are jobless and have no goals. I also know some really accomplished people who smoke everyday. It's the person, not the pot. Pot, like alcohol, doesn't create. It just exaggerates.
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