I like both! Both at the same time!
I'm much more into vibrators than dildos, being a clit-action gal, I guess. (Sounds like a new superhero to me!)
I found a great place to get the Hitachi Magic Wand at a great price (can't remember the website just now, will post it later, from home) and oh HONEY! That is the bom. I've only ever used it on the lower speed setting. The higher speed one just makes me numb. Don't forget to get the attachments! (Aso available where I got my Wand.)
Especially now that toys are my only outlet, I'm especially grateful for them. Of course there's nothing as good as a warm, sweaty, enthusiastic body on yours...but hey, gotta work with what you've got.