Everyone wang is different. Yours might not be a "pointing at the sky" model. That's fine. It's not angle so much as firmness that you should be interested in.
I get distracted fairly easily in bed, and I need fairly frequent changes of tempo, position, activity. A five minute hand-job would have me go soft too. My mind starts to wander, next thing you know I'm thinking about that conversation with that client this afternoon, and it's limpsville. Doesn't mean I'm impotent--it just means I need to know myself and do what I have to do to stay "there".
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