congrats, and welcome to the world of depravity!
seriously, I respect your choice to delve into something that you may not have been that comfortable with in the past.
I can certainly see why you would find most porn out there pretty uninspiring, even i do sometimes. I would say if you find some "actor" or "actress" that you like, try to find some more of their stuff and go from there.
I am sure that whoever gets to be with you in person next, will be pleased with your adventurousness.