I have a friend who has very low self esteem who confessed to me when I got back to Texas from Xmas back home in Canada that he had indeed gone to a prostitute (massage parlour) and got himself taken care of. While he didn't state at the beginning that it was paid for sex, he eventually came clean about it, he didn't seem embarrassed about it but I was somewhat taken back by it.
He's gone back twice since then and I think he plans on going again before the next semester starts up at school. He's very sexually frustrated and does not think that he has a chance with any women, especially in our social construct where the women are pretty much all very attractive and taken. And so he finds himself cockblocking himself.
Personally... I don't have a problem with it as long as, like many feel it's not a forced thing and that the Woman is clean, healthy and of age. Although I cannot see myself going that route ever.
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