abaya

That, right there, is all that really matters. I feel the exact same way, regardless of how many/how few partners I have had. Sex is GREAT, and I love getting the shit fucked out of me on a regular basis. The only time when we have to be gentle is during my period, because my cervix gets so sensitive... and I hate having to be gentle during sex. I just love the feeling of getting banged hard (and no, I usually do not have orgasms during vaginal sex, but I still love it).

Match has a lot to learn, as he said himself... the main thing is for him to not have a double standard for men and women's sex lives, or to believe that many sexual partners = loose morals, etc. Drop your assumptions, man... and start listening up around here.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran