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Originally Posted by match000
i'm not trying to be offensive or insinuate anything, but your approach makes me think that you've had or will have quite a few sexual partners..
in my book, the girl im marrying MUST have had less than 4-5 partners ever! (that's already pushing it, 2-3 to be ideal)
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well, firstly, i'm not offended and i understand you reaction. I am however kind of disappointed in your assumption. albeit true and i would never ever deny that. i have had quite a few sexual partners and i attribute that to my healthy sexual appetite
Healer knows about all of them. I am STD free.
the point here is though, that he doesn't care. and he loves me for the person that i am and the person that i am did not change because of the amount of sexual partners i've had. what it did do in fact was make me wiser than what i was. I am no less who i am because of them, in fact, i might be a better person because of it.
some of them were grave mistakes, but i've learned from them and others were because i thought i was inlove and i thought that they in turn were inlove with me and some of them were just fun... and by the sound if this sentence, it really looks as though i really got around hey
What matters is not that you slept with 5 men or 4 men or 10 men or even 1 man, what matters is that after you do you are still the same person you were before you slept with them.
I love sex and i love being FUCKED
what's the big deal?
oh wise and smart ng
you would do very well to listen and take in all the advice you're getting from our fellow Tfp'ers. because i think you'll get great insight from them and you'll learn so much more.
I have
good luck