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vyrmillion · 07-14-2007, 05:02 AM

This may sound odd, but the more you care and worry the more you will make it not happen. If you go out with the focus to have sex - women can smell it almost like an antipheromone. They often prefer the confidence of nonchalance - but that can't be feigned. I reckon I have had more success after i was married and became single because I did not care so much. I did however not have sex till i was about 24 but only because i could not see the beauty of a drunken female - while my male friends took great advantage of the same situations. Oddly as one of the few dark skinned guys in my school it was assumed i was going to be shagging. Once i hit my stride in my mid 20's i married , then when seperated in my mid thirties - ?? well it is more fun and confidence is something my beloved ex wife (She really is a top lady we just dont get on) taught me. And when you get the chance - dont make it about 'geing off' make it about making it as cool as you can manage for her - it helps your focus / performance and eligibility for an invite back for a second , third or 23rd occasion. Oh and I sincerely wish you well - i dont wish you to get laid - just to feel more comfortable that the first opportunity has not arrived. I can say i have never woken with someone i regretted and my first time was sober (scarey as hell) but absolutely 'fucking awesome' - pardon the pun. And dont count the orgasms - taht game is a losing one. Neither of us came the first time for me - she always believed she could not and damn i was nervous. but despite her experience i taught her much and she defined the arena for me so so sweetly and expertly once we hit our stride. Daaamn - I digress! I have not done forums stuff before

My pardon if i have talked too long. Do Widzenia !
Seeya cats

oox
re 'The beauty of a drunken female statement by the way - a woman i know / admire and have the 'hots' for - if she drunkenly propositions me and is not too drunk - that is way different . but i just dont like a woman i dont know who is drunk ..... ok I will shut up - sorry sorry .
GL TY BB

07-14-2007, 05:02 AM	#35 (permalink)
vyrmillion Upright	This may sound odd, but the more you care and worry the more you will make it not happen. If you go out with the focus to have sex - women can smell it almost like an antipheromone. They often prefer the confidence of nonchalance - but that can't be feigned. I reckon I have had more success after i was married and became single because I did not care so much. I did however not have sex till i was about 24 but only because i could not see the beauty of a drunken female - while my male friends took great advantage of the same situations. Oddly as one of the few dark skinned guys in my school it was assumed i was going to be shagging. Once i hit my stride in my mid 20's i married , then when seperated in my mid thirties - ?? well it is more fun and confidence is something my beloved ex wife (She really is a top lady we just dont get on) taught me. And when you get the chance - dont make it about 'geing off' make it about making it as cool as you can manage for her - it helps your focus / performance and eligibility for an invite back for a second , third or 23rd occasion. Oh and I sincerely wish you well - i dont wish you to get laid - just to feel more comfortable that the first opportunity has not arrived. I can say i have never woken with someone i regretted and my first time was sober (scarey as hell) but absolutely 'fucking awesome' - pardon the pun. And dont count the orgasms - taht game is a losing one. Neither of us came the first time for me - she always believed she could not and damn i was nervous. but despite her experience i taught her much and she defined the arena for me so so sweetly and expertly once we hit our stride. Daaamn - I digress! I have not done forums stuff before My pardon if i have talked too long. Do Widzenia ! Seeya cats oox re 'The beauty of a drunken female statement by the way - a woman i know / admire and have the 'hots' for - if she drunkenly propositions me and is not too drunk - that is way different . but i just dont like a woman i dont know who is drunk ..... ok I will shut up - sorry sorry . GL TY BB