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Originally Posted by willravel
That almost makes it sound like a man is either smart or in shape, not both. It'd be really cocky for me to say that I'm in both groups, but I happen to know plenty of my friends who are men that are in shape and intelligent. It's not like you have to make a choice between the two traits.
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Of course not...guess that came out a bit wrong...it's more overlooking one for the other-being 'shallow' is what it boils down to. At 20, appearances mean more. Sometimes that continues, sometimes not. But we'd be lying if we said looks/build didn't matter at all. It's just preferrable to be able to hold a conversation outside the bedroom or bar and that is not something some of us consider for the long haul.