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Originally Posted by abaya
But I'd say, if you are DEFINITELY looking for booty-call status only, then make that clear from the get-go. Don't lead her into thinking you want to have "sex" or even a data or relationship, when you just want to "fuck," period. Then, even if she ends up not liking you, at least you were in the clear by being honest about your wishes. And who knows, she just might be up for a fuck!
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I was temporarily upset over the assumption, but then I thought about it for just a little second and now I understand why you wrote this.
I'm not the "notch on the headboard" guy. I'm not the guy who wants to "fuck" a girl just because I want sex from her. In fact, I'm really not generally turned on by the prospect of random sex with a girl. I'm a relationship guy. I wouldn't be sexually interested in her unless I wanted to date her, as well. I'm just not wired the way that many guys are.
However, this is my trepidation, my tribulation, my trouble (woohoo alliteration!)... I am thinking I'd like to have something with her, but my fear of sexual incompatibility is palpable.
Oh, and I would be shocked if I'm wrong about this. I read people pretty damn well, if I do say so myself, but you're right that there are people who have reserved sides that only a select few will become privy to.
Oh well, I'm still looking around at what's out there, I'm hardly just concentrating on her, especially since I'm not even totally sure she likes me (but I think she does).