Originally Posted by abaya

Well of course, that doesn't take much honesty... confidence is always sexy. Arrogance, however, is not. And in my experience, people who spend an extraordinary amount of time building their muscles in a gym (not just staying in shape, but purely for the sake of "getting big") tend to be assholes. So, there's my generalization about men with large muscles.

But yes, of course confidence is a great thing. It just doesn't have to correlate with outward appearances, in my book.