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Originally Posted by abaya
But yes, of course confidence is a great thing. It just doesn't have to correlate with outward appearances, in my book.
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But that's kind of the point... for most of us, our confidence is greatly affected by our outward appearance. Outward appearances matter, no matter how much we wish it were otherwise.
Q has been gymming it up for a long time now, and has built a lot of muscle mass he never had before. Did I find him attractive and enjoy him before? Obviously. Am I enjoying the new musculature? Lots! (I have a lot of fun objectifying him regularly, but that's just me being a little silly about the hotness.)
It's funny... I notice sexy eyes just as much as I do sexy shoulders.. and I find it really odd that everyone else has such specific preferences about body types. I never did. I like *people*. But I can't help it... if I were trolling the bars for meaningless sex, I'd be more likely to target the muscley ones. In my mind, they're just more likely to go for a booty call than a guy who isn't. And if I were looking for a booty call, I wouldn't want to choose someone who I might hurt - the muscley ones are more superficial and less emotional, didn't you know?
/at self Is that logical? Absolutely NOT. It's just instinct based on stereotypes.