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Try thinking of sexual relations in the context of conversation. There are those people you seriously engage in lengthly meaningful talking sessions, but at times its more fitting to simply discuss the weather or shoot the shit. Likewise we are sometimes taken aback by someone showing an ability to hold a lengthly conversation that we may have felt uninteresting in the past....simply by chance.
In my experience sex has many faces, and is open to change and guidance. You might be pleasantly suprised by the results of taking it a bit less seriously,until a relationship requires your serious attention. In other words...you're thinking way too hard about something that does not yet require detailed examination.
Just enjoy it....its much more pleasant that way.
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