Just to throw another twopence into the mix... I personally don't recommend seeing a counselor right off the bat. Recognition is a good thing. Past that, sometimes you just have to "dig down deep" and "soldier up" as the sayings around here go. Counseling isn't BAD, it's just not always necessary. See if you can't fix yourself first. Knowing what you know about yourself, just start convincing yourself that being jealous is a waste of emotional energy. If nothing else, take my argument from the post above and explain to yourself that it's just the reality of it and you have no control over what someone else does. Why be pissed or upset if you have no control?
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