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1) it's normal to have concerns over your apperance / sexuality no matter which gender you belong to (the fact that a significant portion of the male American population suffers from an eating disorder proves that appearance concerns are cross gnder)
2) You had a major accident 2 weeks ago. Give yourself some time especially with a chest injury, the last thing you need to do is reopen a wound or get an infection and spend more time stuck in your bed / chair while you recuperate over again. If you're feeling slightly blobbish you can reduce your calory intake and stick to more protein intensive foods or vegetables and fruit or do small light exercises when you feel up to it.
Your gf has been with you for 5 years now. She's not going to love you any less because you are having a low point, explain to her how you feel. The only reason I've ever heard of a woman being mad when refused sex is because she'd interpreted it as him rejecting her. With you definitely not the case.
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"I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own"
"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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