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Originally Posted by heatherbeehoney
I just said..."That wasn't exactly the response I was looking for" took his cell phone, showed him how to delete the message and then told him in very graphic and erotic detail what he had just missed out on.
He pretty much admitted it was a stupid thing to say, that he didn't mean it the way it sounded, and that he appreciated me more than I would ever know. He did have a difficult time sharing why that was his response...
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Heatherbeehoney,
I would just like to say I think you two have a great marriage. Seriously. You are excited and willing to try new things to spice it up and even when things don't work out right and it bothers you, you do what you said above. You tell him that it bothered you. And then, he admits he made a mistake!
This is what good communication in a marriage should look like. I don't agree with those saying your husband totally screwed up or there is something off with him or any of that crap. Your moods simply didn't match and he was a bit insensitive in his response. Tough. People aren't perfect.
Your ability to handle the situation promptly and efficiently is very commendable though.
I will keep this in mind when something similar inevitably happens between my wife and I and I hope to handle it with as much integrity as you both did.