I was speaking more in a sociological way than your specific post. With your education, I have a hard time believing you'd stereotype so drastically, so I wasn't really referring to you.
But I think you're dramatically in the minority in the assumption that men can have feelings about sex too.
If this thread were about a woman freaking about a text message about cunnilingus at work, it would be perceived by the majority as completely normal and I doubt many people would be attacking her response so much as agreeing that she had a right to be upset.
It's somehow normal for women to have difficulty "communicating" their feelings and articulating why it was inappropriate, but if a man fails to do so he's either "wrong in the head" for refusing sex or just an asshole who can't communicate.
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