Look Jinn, the response (at least on my part) is not about the man not wanting to have sex... it was the way he responded to it. If he had said, "Hey hon, thanks for the great offer, just not in the mood right now..." I wouldn't have reacted at all. He would have been clear, communicating his lack of desire, and also cordial in his refusal. Nothing wrong with that. I have no delusions that men want sex all the time, etc etc... hell, I know more women than men who want sex all the time! But don't read your own anger into some people's responses, yeah?
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
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