I really resent the implication in this thread that men are always ready for sex and any refusal is an attack on their "manliness" and / or an accusation of "something being wrong with him."
Heaven forbid we be human too, instead of sex-craving machines. For fuck's sake people, we're not in the 1950s anymore and I'd like some "sexual equality" for men too. We're not sex machines, as much as some men boast about it and as much as media pushes it.
It's not just this thread either. It seems incredibly common to assume that if a man doesn't want sex there must be something wrong with him, mentally. It's as if we're not allowed to have emotions when it comes to sex.
Regardless of if I'm happy, sad, angry, hungry, tired, hot, sleepy or what-have-you, I should be ready to go with SuperErection the minute I see a flash of tit or ass, or the minute that someone says anything sexually indicative.
For some of us, it doesn't work that way. I wish someone would at least recognize that you can refuse sex or even be upset about it AND STILL BE A NORMAL, MENTALLY STABLE HUMAN MALE.
I have feelings too, GOD DAMNIT!

