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Originally posted by Washington
Thanks for your replies you two :}
As far as the gym...its not that type of scene...its a very hardcore gym...its entirely weights (no aerobic) and everyone there is either a 30-50 something powerlifter dude whos been doing it for years or females that look like men (and are a lot older than me) maybe I should switch gyms.
I live with my parents (i get free tuition since my mother is a professor but only if I live at home).
I am extremely active. I mountain bike. I run. I workout.
I am a ski instructor in the (i take off spring semester and move out west for a few months) and teach skiing in Utah. But im not 21. and all of my co-workers are...so i couldnt go make friends at the bar after work....
In the summer I mountain bike and do adventure racing (like eco-challenge but much smaller)....but i still have the same problem...i cant find anyone to mountain bike with so I just go by myself.
I think its that even though I am not fat anymore, i still think of myself as fat and unwanted because this was how i was treated for many years.
I had a running partner that I met in Physics Lab but she moved away.
it just seems there is always a reason....maybe i am looking to hard for the reasons. I dunno
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you sound like an amazing person man, and quite a role model to myself. Sorry to hear that you've had a rough past, but I know many girls who are dying to meet a well rounded guy like yourself. Just keep your head up and make sure you aren't looking in the wrong places (for your type), like dive bars and pool halls. Find a good girl who will tear up the mountains with you while biking or skiing. maybe a local club or job will provide oportunity.
best of luck