I just said..."That wasn't exactly the response I was looking for" took his cell phone, showed him how to delete the message and then told him in very graphic and erotic detail what he had just missed out on.
He pretty much admitted it was a stupid thing to say, that he didn't mean it the way it sounded, and that he appreciated me more than I would ever know. He did have a difficult time sharing why that was his response...
The whole texting thing is new to me and I just thought it would be a neat twist.
All of this happened yesterday and he burned up my phone lines today, so I guess no harm no foul.
I just wanted some insight as to what could possibly have motivated him to act that way. It was a total shocker. I mean we have a great marriage and are always mixing it up and being creative for each other so it just caught me out of the blue. I had never gotten this reaction before. It was like a total shut down. Complete buzz kill for me...
Thanks to everyone who responded. Your a great group of people and very insightful. The varied opinions and thoughts and suggestions really helped as did the humor...
Heatherbeehoney
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